The very fact you are advocating for a “color-blind” view of the world is itself the definition of whiteness. The fact that you feel entitled to tell a Black man how to view race is a product of your white privilege. Your response is so white in fact, there is a hashtag written about you, #notallwhitepeople.
Before you comment on posts regarding whiteness, you should read about yourself. Robin DiAngelo is a researcher whose done a lot of research on you. I’d suggest you Google her.